I'm feeling fairly squished and tentative today, but I'm going to soldier on and share the goals Sue and I talked about Tuesday night when we couldn't sleep.
We realized that what was important to us was not what we had or did, but what this gave Fiona, so our goals are based on that.
Subject to change upon discovery, and all the other usual disclaimers apply:
We want to be living without a house or car before Fiona turns 7 in March of 2011, and before she turns 10, she will have slept and eaten in a private home on all six of the accessible continents.
I'm leaving out Antarctica, partly because it's dangerous and spectacularly difficult to get there, but primarily because there is no culture for her to absorb, no new human understanding for a small child there.
We thought the criteria of eating and sleeping in a private home would be a simple thing to measure, and the right thing to measure. Did she experience a slice of real life with everyday people? That's all we're hoping for right now.