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		<title>Bridge Out on Memory Lane</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 16:26:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the movies, when the long-lost father/mother/brother/sister/whatever crosses paths with their kin, directors show us the visceral connection. Look in their eyes; they know something just happened. Nice for story lines, but no connection to reality.

I spent a couple hours driving through the are where I grew up, and I&#8217;m surprised that I was so surprised [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the movies, when the long-lost father/mother/brother/sister/whatever crosses paths with their kin, directors show us the visceral connection. Look in their eyes; they know something just happened. Nice for story lines, but no connection to reality.<br />
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<img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/memorylane-e1315845167375.png" alt="bridge out on memory lane" title="bridge out on memory lane" width="229" height="509" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2137" style="border:1px solid #666666;" />I spent a couple hours driving through the are where I grew up, and I&#8217;m surprised that I was so surprised that nothing felt more than vaguely familiar. Unconsciously, I apparently believed that I&#8217;d magically know that if we go down <em>this</em> road a ways, there&#8217;d be the old Swenson place, or the Swanson place (one of each) or find the long-gone location of Range School where I went for 1st and 2nd grade (all in one year) when we lived in Amery.</p>
<p>Glenwood City felt a bit familiar, but since that&#8217;s where my father was born, not me, it was only because he&#8217;d shown us a few locations 35 years ago when we were there.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been through Baldwin, where I was born, 3 or 4 times as we passed through Wisconsin. It&#8217;s never meant anything to me. We didn&#8217;t live there, it&#8217;s just where the hospital was.</p>
<p>But somehow, I thought I&#8217;d find at least one of the 2-room schools I attended; one of the big white farm houses I lived in; one of the long long driveways I walked down to wait, in the snow, for the schoolbus.</p>
<p>Near the end of the drive, before hitting the interstate for St. Paul, we took a short detour, making a left turn at the warning sign:</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center;border:2px solid #666666;padding:0.6em;margin:1em auto;">Bridge Out</span></p>
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		<title>Visit to San Diego Extended Due to Van Repair</title>
		<link>http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/08/16/visit-to-san-diego-extended-due-to-van-repair/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Aug 2011 19:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sue L Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We arrived safe, though tired, in San Diego last Friday night at Joel&#8217;s brother&#8217;s house. We had a very nice meal together and then got to bed. Our niece is kindly letting us use her new futon to sleep on. Sunday we had a great visit with my mom, Grandma Susan. We enjoyed our lunch at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We arrived safe, though tired, in San Diego last Friday night at Joel&#8217;s brother&#8217;s house. We had a very nice meal together and then got to bed. Our niece is kindly letting us use her new futon to sleep on. Sunday we had a great visit with my mom, Grandma Susan. We enjoyed our lunch at the park.</p>
<div id="attachment_2078" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/grandma_susan.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2078" title="grandma_susan" src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/grandma_susan.jpg" alt="Grandma Susan and Fiona at our Sunday Bible meeting" width="500" height="488" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Grandma Susan and Fiona at our Sunday Bible meeting</p></div>
<p>We also got to visit over the weekend briefly with Aunt Lynn and her kids. Fiona also got to meet some of her second cousins and play with them. Baby girl Bonnie is her favorite of course.</p>
<div id="attachment_2079" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 293px"><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/2nd_cousin_bonnie.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2079" title="2nd_cousin_bonnie" src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/2nd_cousin_bonnie-283x300.jpg" alt="Second cousin Bonnie" width="283" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Second cousin Bonnie</p></div>
<p>Then there&#8217;s Uncle Brett (Bonnie&#8217;s grandpa) and second cousin Timothy.</p>
<div id="attachment_2081" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/uncle_brett.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-2081" title="uncle_brett" src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/uncle_brett-150x150.jpg" alt="Uncle Brett with granddaughter" width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Uncle Brett with granddaughter</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2080" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/2nd_cousin_timothy.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-2080" title="2nd_cousin_timothy" src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/2nd_cousin_timothy-150x150.jpg" alt="Second cousin Timothy" width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Second cousin Timothy</p></div>
<p>When we arrived last Friday we thought we&#8217;d be leaving on Monday or Tuesday. But over the weekend the van started making this noise in the front right wheel area much like it had a few years ago when we had trouble with the wheel bearing &#8211; that had been covered under warranty. So we took it to the Kia dealership Monday and they confirmed that was the problem. Fortunately the van is still under warranty and all repairs will be fully covered. </p>
<p>We just found out today they can do the repairs on Wednesday and we can make plans to leave San Diego now to head for Wisconsin later this week.</p>
<p>So though we&#8217;d rather not have vehicle problems, the timing couldn&#8217;t have been better. And this way we get to stay and visit more with family. Fiona&#8217;s really enjoying getting to know more of her family &#8211; especially baby Bonnie!</p>
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		<title>The Long Haul: In Retrospect</title>
		<link>http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/07/29/the-long-haul-in-retrospect/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 14:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sue L Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A year ago I wrote about the beginnings of our adventure. Then I wasn&#8217;t sure exactly where we&#8217;d be in a year or if we&#8217;d even decide to leave behind a home and travel. I did know I wanted to do something different.</p>
<p>So we packed up, drove up to Vancouver and spent a glorious three weeks [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A year ago I wrote about the <a title="the long haul" href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/2010/07/29/the-long-haul/" target="_blank">beginnings </a>of our adventure. Then I wasn&#8217;t sure exactly where we&#8217;d be in a year or if we&#8217;d even decide to leave behind a home and travel. I did know I wanted to do something <strong>different</strong>.</p>
<p>So we packed up, drove up to Vancouver and spent a glorious three weeks there. The trip made me realize the need for <strong>big change</strong> in our lives. I had gotten into a rut and the daily grind of getting up and sitting in our dark little home office wouldn&#8217;t cut it anymore. I needed to be outside, feeling the sun shine on my face, the wind blowing through my hair. I needed to spend time teaching Fiona about the great big outdoors.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great to be able to go anywhere we want and to maintain our work and keep our clients happy. When our official &#8220;one year without a home&#8221; time comes at the end of September, I&#8217;ll write even more about all this has meant and how I feel. For today I want to thank all the wonderful clients we have who have worked with us even when we are so far apart. Below is just one testimonial from a satisfied client:</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>I have been truly amazed that with all of Sue’s travels, I haven’t experienced any interruptions in service whatsoever. She has consistently delivered her services to the same great level I’ve come to expect, all since becoming a road warrior! I’m not sure I’d be so resilient, but she and Joel really know how to operate mobile businesses. Well done!</em>&#8221; ~ <a title="stephanie chanlder" href="http://StephanieChandler.com " target="_blank">Stephanie Chandler</a>, Author, Speaker, Publisher,</p>
<p>P.S. Stephanie later emailed to say, &#8220;<em>It really is remarkable how you’ve managed to go mobile with your businesses. That should be your next book!!</em>&#8221; Guess we&#8217;ve got more work to do and another book to publish! :)</p>
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		<title>Finding Me: The 1st Year</title>
		<link>http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/07/28/finding-me-the-1st-year/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 06:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I wrote that the most important thing you find when you travel is yourself. (What I said literally was the real challenges are inside us; the journey simply exposes them.) I could write about the amazing changes in Fiona (as the 7th child, I know what to expect and she&#8217;s exceeded it exponentially.) I could write [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote that the most important thing you find when you travel is yourself. (What I said literally was <em><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/2010/08/24/where-theres-internet/">the real challenges are inside us; the journey simply exposes them</a>.</em>) I could write about the amazing changes in Fiona (as the 7th child, I know what to expect and she&#8217;s exceeded it exponentially.) I could write about how Sue has relaxed, has developed her faith, has deepened my belief in her undying unconditional love.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;ll just write about me, okay?<br />
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<a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/joel.at_.the_.piano_.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/joel.at_.the_.piano_.jpg" alt="Joel at the piano" title="Joel at the piano" width="245" height="183" class="alignright size-full wp-image-2021" /></a>One year ago, nearly to the minute, we left our home behind and chose a nomadic life. For me, though the trigger was financial (it was cheaper to live without a house to care for) my real reasons were about personal <strong>growth</strong>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a pack-rat. I needed to stop it before it slipped from <strong>annoying to unhealthy</strong>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a <strong>homebody</strong>. I hate; no, detest, despise, fear, loathe, going out of my home. Crossing my own threshold going outward is an emotional, physical trial, every time I do it. Crossing it inward is a near-spiritual experience.</p>
<p>Difficult nearing unhealthy.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more, but those are a good enough place to start.</p>
<p>I tend toward <strong>extremes</strong>. (For you Myers Briggs fans, I flip-flop between INFJ, the rarest personality type, especially for a male, and INFP, its confused twin.) I have only two settings for nearly everything. Two colors, black and white. I live in a whorling vortex of intensity and passion which <strong>wears on even me</strong> a bit. </p>
<p>Over the past year of traveling, I&#8217;ve <strong>learned to let go</strong> a little. I can&#8217;t perfectly control the cleanliness and noise of my environment. I don&#8217;t even choose the bed I sleep in most nights. Not to say I&#8217;ve dealt with dirt or discomfort; that&#8217;s not the point. The point is <em>control</em> over those factors.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve <strong>stopped collecting</strong> almost entirely. I see a tea mug I like, and I just like it, and move on. I&#8217;ve purchased one CD that I recall in the past year. I&#8217;ve bought one pair of shoes and two pairs of shorts, and given away a pair of shoes, a suit with two pairs of pants and suspenders, multiple pairs of pants, and I don&#8217;t remember what else. <strong>Less, less, I cry.</strong> I seem to be listening. (Okay, the dozen books are research for my writing. Don&#8217;t ask a workman to stop buying necessary tools.)</p>
<p>Not one new <strong>musical instrument</strong>, other than Fiona&#8217;s ukulele. This, in itself, is miraculous.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve become slightly more <strong>stoic about the weather</strong>. I still have a visceral angry response to being too hot. But I&#8217;m learning to do what I can, and search for joy in something else when I&#8217;m uncomfortable.</p>
<p>I have discovered that I can still <strong>feel guilty</strong> about not spending enough time with my daughter, even when she&#8217;s in the same room with me 16+ hours a day. I have discovered that I <strong>yearn for more</strong> time, more talk, more touching and eye-gazing with my Best Beloved, even though we <strong>are</strong> in the same room 23+ hours a day. I want us to dissolve into each other, into a single being, so we&#8217;re never apart for an instant.</p>
<p>Weather didn&#8217;t prevent us from <strong>publishing two books</strong> this month; <a href="http://thetimeisnow1159.com/">my 4th business book</a> and <a href="http://throughthefog.joeldcanfield.com/">my first fiction</a>. Nor from having our two best months financially in many years.</p>
<p>The short version: I&#8217;ve learned that even as I approach 52, the age at which my father died (a fact which looms large in my psyche) <strong>I can still change</strong>.</p>
<p>Finding me. In unexpected places and ways, I keep finding me, more, clearer, better; the distillate. </p>
<p><strong>Joel Concentrate: Just Add Travel</strong></p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">What&#8217;s your excuse for not traveling? My guess: you&#8217;re using family, money, or perceived obligations as an excuse for the fear of finding yourself. Don&#8217;t.</span></p>
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		<title>Challenge: Routine</title>
		<link>http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/07/04/challenge-routine/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 11:33:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sue L Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The challenge: maintaining a routine. Many wonder how it is possible to maintain a routine while traveling. There are especially concerns about some sort of routine for Fiona and her schooling. And of course our work. So what&#8217;s our routine and how do we maintain it?</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve always had a rather flexible routine in our way of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The challenge: maintaining a routine. Many wonder how it is possible to maintain a routine while traveling. There are especially concerns about some sort of routine for Fiona and her schooling. And of course our work. So what&#8217;s our routine and how do we maintain it?</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve always had a rather flexible routine in our way of life. Important things get done while allowing ourselves lots of spontaneity in life.</p>
<p>One of the most challenging things is arriving at a new place where we know we&#8217;re going to be for a few weeks and getting settled in. If we can settle in quickly, in a day or so, we can maintain our routine and get more done. We continue to work on that. One of the first things we do when we get to a new place is find the place we&#8217;re going to work and get our computers set up. Next we need to find a place for the books and materials Joel needs to refer to for his work.</p>
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<p>Of course the days we&#8217;re traveling on the road we don&#8217;t have the same routine we have when we&#8217;re house sitting. But there are some constants even then. It&#8217;s very important that Fiona has our attention, particularly at bedtime. We always try to read with her and say her nightly prayers. One night a week we have a family night where we give special attention to her spiritual instruction. We often play games as well. Joel and I have developed the habit of reading some spiritual material together first thing in the morning over a cup of tea. This helps us feel closer to each other and to our Creator. </p>
<p>We&#8217;ll have to start some new routines once school begins again. I usually have Fiona sit with us wherever we&#8217;re working so I can supervise her school work. Some of it is done on the road as we drive. The important thing is that Fiona knows we&#8217;re always here for her. And that&#8217;s our routine.</p>
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		<title>A Year of Driving; A Driving Year</title>
		<link>http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/06/11/a-year-of-driving-a-driving-year/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jun 2011 14:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>One year ago today, perhaps one year ago this moment, I looked up from my tea and said, &#8220;It sure would be cheaper to live if we didn&#8217;t have a house to take care of.&#8221; And the other responsible mature adult in the family, rather than laughing at my insanity or rolling her eyes at my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One year ago today, perhaps one year ago this moment, I looked up from my tea and said, &#8220;<em>It sure would be cheaper to live if we didn&#8217;t have a house to take care of</em>.&#8221; And the other responsible mature adult in the family, rather than laughing at my insanity or rolling her eyes at my immaturity, looked down at her tea and said, &#8220;<em>We can&#8217;t leave today, but we could go for a nice long drive and talk about it</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/family.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/family-150x150.jpg" alt="sunny nomad family" title="sunny nomad family" width="150" height="150" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1673" /></a>One year later we&#8217;ve realized that we&#8217;re <strong>barely getting started</strong>. There&#8217;s so much to see and do. We&#8217;ve certainly seen and done a lot already. But just counting the predominantly English-speaking portions of North America we have passed through only 21/63 of the states, provinces and territories (which you mathematicians know can be reduced to 1/3; hey, we&#8217;re homeschoolers, we&#8217;re always teaching.) And that doesn&#8217;t even acknowledge the <strong>original goal</strong> of sharing a meal in each state, province and territory. That probably requires a complete recount which may reduce the number significantly.</p>
<h3><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/waterfall.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/waterfall-216x300.jpg" alt="Canadian waterfall" title="Canadian waterfall" width="216" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-646" /></a>Another Year&#8212;At Least</h3>
<p>One year from now we hope to be 63 for 63.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s going to take planning and occasionally pushing just a little. So far we&#8217;ve let our travels take us wherever there was a place to go. During the coming year we might <strong>make choices instead of drifting</strong> on the wind. </p>
<p>It does not yet feel like work. We don&#8217;t feel unstable. As the bumper sticker in Taos New Mexico said, &#8216;<strong>all who wander are not lost</strong>.&#8217; We wander, but not lost.</p>
<h3>Settling In,<br />Not Settling Down</h3>
<p><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/view.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/view-300x225.jpg" alt="view" title="view" width="300" height="225" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1800" /></a><br clear="left" />We&#8217;ve talked about <strong>moving our World HQ</strong> from Northern California to the frigid wasteland of Wisconsin in order to be close to my mom as much as possible. We&#8217;ve taken a few preliminary steps but it&#8217;s nothing like settling down. </p>
<p>That process though raised thoughts of settling down. We realized as we drove and talked that <strong>we no longer need to travel</strong>. Now we want to travel. We&#8217;re not sure we&#8217;ve seen any change in our finances. What we have seen is a great long list of <strong>changes in us</strong>. </p>
<h3 style="clear:right;"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/family-300x225.jpg" alt="Canfield family" title="family" width="300" height="225" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1826" />Lessons. Friends. Wealth.</h3>
<p>After knowing each other nearly four decades we&#8217;ve managed to learn <strong>new things about each other</strong> during the past year, even during the past month. Sue has developed greater faith that <strong>things will work out</strong>, that we will sleep indoors, eat regularly and have the things we need for our simple life. I&#8217;ve developed greater faith that I can <strong>advance confidently in the direction of my dreams</strong>. Our little one has learned that <strong>not all heights are dangerous</strong> and that outside is better than inside.</p>
<p><a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/camels2.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/camels2-300x213.jpg" alt="A caravan of angry camels" title="A caravan of angry camels" width="300" height="213" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-143" /></a>We&#8217;ve made dozens of connections and half a dozen <strong>lifelong friends</strong>. We&#8217;ve realized the <strong>power of asking</strong> and the nearly universal presence of <strong>generosity and kindness</strong>. </p>
<p>There are still challenges almost every day. Being a nomad doesn&#8217;t mean leaving challenges behind. It means <strong>doing battle</strong> with the challenges <strong>on our own terms</strong>. We have learned to measure our wealth not in dollars but in time spent doing what we choose.</p>
<p><strong>We are rich beyond belief.</strong></p>
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		<title>The Search for Goat Milk</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 16:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sue L Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For years Joel&#8217;s chiropractor, Dr. Petrice Foxworthy of Cambridge Chiropractic, said that his hayfever-type allergies were probably aggravated by cow&#8217;s milk. About 18 months ago Joel switched to goat&#8217;s milk instead and found out Dr. Petrice was correct.</p>
<p>Cutting cow&#8217;s milk and other products made from cow&#8217;s milk from his diet helped alleviate some of the allergy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For years Joel&#8217;s chiropractor, Dr. Petrice Foxworthy of <a title="Cambridge Chiropractic" href="http://www.cambridgechiropractic.com/" target="_blank">Cambridge Chiropractic</a>, said that his hayfever-type allergies were probably aggravated by cow&#8217;s milk. About 18 months ago Joel switched to goat&#8217;s milk instead and found out Dr. Petrice was correct.</p>
<p>Cutting cow&#8217;s milk and other products made from cow&#8217;s milk from his diet helped alleviate some of the allergy sypmtoms. Now each morning in his tea he has a bit of goat&#8217;s milk. (Yes, we both drink tea the English way &#8211; with milk.) If he really wants some cheese, once in a while we&#8217;ll splurge and pay extra to get goat cheese. And the all-time favorite ice cream now is Coconut Bliss, <a title="coconut bliss" href="http://coconutbliss.com/coconut-bliss-products" target="_blank">Naked Almond Fudge</a>.  It&#8217;s not cheap and so is a special occasional treat.</p>
<p>However, since we arrived in Rice Lake Wisconsin two weeks ago, Joel&#8217;s been without goat milk &#8211; until late Thursday night. <span id="more-1728"></span> We&#8217;ve spent the last two weeks searching for goat milk. We initially looked at the grocery store on Main Street and didn&#8217;t find any. After looking in the milk aisle, I was told by a store employee that if they had any it might be in the organic, natural food section at the other end of the store. But I didn&#8217;t find any there either.</p>
<p>Elsewhere we&#8217;ve often been able to find <a title="meyenberg website" href="http://www.meyenberg.com/" target="_blank">Meyenberg</a> goat milk at Walmart. I tried there in Rice Lake and found none. Joel searched online hoping to find someplace in Barron County here that had it. He did find it in Chippewa Falls &#8211; an hour away! We didn&#8217;t want to spend the cost in gas to go that far for a quart of milk.</p>
<p>We found some local cheese shops we though might either carry it or be ablee to direct us to some &#8211; nope.  We asked everyone we met. Here in the heart of darily land you can find lots of cows &#8211; not so many goats and their milk.</p>
<p>We did find a little organic store that carried powdered goat&#8217;s milk. It wasn&#8217;t cheap and Joel had no idea how it would taste. He didn&#8217;t want to spend nearly $15 to find out he didn&#8217;t like it. So we kept searching.</p>
<p>Thursday night Joel and Fiona had sore throats and stayed home while I attended our local Bible study meeting. I was talking with a lady who used to get goat milk from a farmer&#8217;s goat for her son who was allergic to cow&#8217;s milk. She said that sh&#8217;ed seen goat&#8217;s milk at the local store, <a title="market place" href="http://www.marketplacefoodsonline.com/locations.html" target="_blank">Market Place</a>.  Now this was the initial store on Main Street where I had looked before. Yet she was sure she&#8217;d seen it there. So I figured I might as well pop in and look again and ask.</p>
<p>At 9 pm Thursday night I walked the milk aisle at Marketplace and lo and behold I found goat milk! It&#8217;s by <a title="Poplar Hill Farm in Minnesota" href="http://www.poplarhillfarm.com/index.asp" target="_blank">Poplar Hill</a> in Minnesota. I was giddy with excitement! Yes, they do carry it. Apparently they were just out when I&#8217;d previously looked. And no one else in town appears to know that here you <strong>can</strong> find goat milk.</p>
<p>I came home as quickly as possible to share the good news and Joel immediately used goat milk in a hot bedtime drink.</p>
<p>At long last the search for goat milk in Rice Lake is over. Joel&#8217;s looking forward to tea in the morning again.</p>
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		<title>Embrace the Unexpected</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 19:05:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Tehachipi dusted with snow. A field full of jumbo jets in Mojave. The almost comically hard snow line above the desert. Our first night sleeping in a Walmart parking lot. </p>
<p>If our trip had gone as planned we would have missed all this. We would never have planned a trip which included being stuck in Bakersfield [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tehachipi dusted with snow. A field full of jumbo jets in Mojave. The almost comically hard snow line above the desert. Our first night sleeping in a Walmart parking lot. </p>
<p>If our trip had gone as planned we would have missed all this. We would never have planned a trip which included being stuck in Bakersfield because the freeways were blocked due to snow. </p>
<p>You cannot plan for everything. Indeed, you should plan. But as every nomad knows no plan survives contact with the highway. </p>
<p>Discontent and unhappiness are caused by our refusal to acknowledge and accept what is. Call it serendipity, the universe, God. Embrace the adventures that happen all on their own. </p>
<p>Like most true stories, there&#8217;s just no way we could make this stuff up.</p>
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		<title>No Travel Plan Survives Contact with the Pavement</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 14:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A few days ago Sue told you about being stuck over night in Bakersfield because the roads going south were closed because of the snow. Yes, in California, you can close the carotid artery of the state with snow, unlike, say, Wisconsin.</p>
<p>Anyway, we had a ball. We never would have planned most of the stuff we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few days ago Sue <a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/03/21/change-of-plans-when-road-closes/">told you about being stuck over night in Bakersfield</a> because the roads going south were closed because of the snow. Yes, in California, you can close the carotid artery of the state with snow, unlike, say, Wisconsin.</p>
<p>Anyway, we had a ball. We never would have planned most of the stuff we did on that drive; sleeping in the car in a WalMart parking lot, f&#8217;rinstance. We left early to get here early. Sue finally has contact lenses again instead of her outdated glasses, so she can drive at night and we would have. We&#8217;ve driven 25 hours with nothing but naps. I wouldn&#8217;t do it often, but we were so antsy to get going that we were ready to leave at 4:30pm Sunday, and drive &#8217;til 7 the next morning. That&#8217;s not what happened.</p>
<p>What happened was that we discovered, again, that we can do pretty much anything, and if we can&#8217;t do it, we can survive it. We can&#8217;t control the weather or road closures, so instead, we controlled our reaction. We enjoyed the silliness of, after making it out of Canada, Wisconsin, South Dakota, and more last November, being snowbound in <em>southern California</em> fer cryin&#8217; out loud.</p>
<p>We saw Tehachapi covered in snow. (<a href="http://jerrykennedy.com/">Jerry</a> and I are going to organise a business retreat there. Interested in some of the most humanistic, practical, <em>fun</em> business training in existence? Gimme a shout.)</p>
<p>We reminded ourselves that no one was waiting up for us. We had no deadline, only a goal, and a loose one. I drove under the speed limit. We stopped to look at stuff. Fiona trudged through snow in a Walgreen&#8217;s parking lot, just because she wanted to. We sat in a StarBUCKs in Bakersfield and just puttered while Fiona ate the free oatmeal one of the baristas gave her (&#8220;I&#8217;m a mom and I just thought she might like some; is that okay?&#8221; Um, yeah, you can give our little girl breakfast; sure!)</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t <em>plan</em> trips as great as the ones that happen on their own.</p>
<p>I noticed something as I drove. When I glanced at Sue, there were different lines on her face. For quite a while, they&#8217;ve been worry lines; stress lines. We&#8217;ve spent some time doing things we <em>needed</em> to do the past couple months; time getting ready for <em>should</em> instead of <em>want</em>. Now, the lines are smiles, peace, thoughts, prayers. </p>
<p>Lines on the map don&#8217;t mean much to me anymore; I can go anywhere and be happy. It&#8217;s what I read in my wife&#8217;s face that tells me whether we&#8217;re <a href="http://canfieldofdreams.com/2011/02/02/this-path-fawm-2011-02/">on the right path</a>.</p>
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		<title>No Back; Only Forth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2011 15:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joel D Canfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Leaving Sacramento after our daughter&#8217;s wedding, Sue pointed out that this was the real beginning of our nomadic life.</p>
<p>Up &#8217;til now, everything has either been a dress rehearsal (our month in Vancouver) or a trip (to Montreal) or a temporary holding pattern until we had to go back. We always had to go back.</p>
<p>This time, there&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leaving Sacramento after our daughter&#8217;s wedding, Sue pointed out that this was the real beginning of our nomadic life.</p>
<p>Up &#8217;til now, everything has either been a dress rehearsal (our month in Vancouver) or a trip (to Montreal) or a temporary holding pattern until we had to go back. We always had to go back.</p>
<p>This time, there&#8217;s no <em>back</em>, only <em>forth</em>.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re not going somewhere we have to come back from. We don&#8217;t have any specific places we have to be, or be back to. Nothing to hold us to any particular spot on the planet. Nothing to do that isn&#8217;t exactly what we&#8217;ve chosen.</p>
<p><div id="attachment_1528" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 224px"><a href="http://bizba6.com/images/Eire5471.jpg"><img src="http://canfieldofdreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/JoelAtBrayHead.jpg" alt="Joel braves 70mph winds at Bray Head, Valentia Island, Co. Kerry, Ireland" title="Joel braves 70mph winds at Bray Head, Valentia Island, Co. Kerry, Ireland" width="214" height="255" class="size-full wp-image-1528" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Joel braves 70mph winds at Bray Head, Valentia Island, Co. Kerry, Ireland</p></div>Forth. Only forth. We go forth to house sit for someone who wasn&#8217;t an existing connection. Forth to spend real time near the place I was born but have rarely seen since then. Forth to August in Canada (I got my wish, again.) Forth to the easternmost land on this continent, to balance our standing on the westernmost land in Europe.</p>
<p>Our time here in Phoenix feels all too short, but before it ends in one week, we&#8217;ll have passed the 6-month mark in our nomadic life. The past 6 months have been the greatest period of change in my life, and in my head. I didn&#8217;t know it was possible to know Sue any better, and I do. I thought I knew where I was going with our business. Turns out that the greatest leap was to something that&#8217;s not a business at all, but a reason, so April 19th I&#8217;m launching a Great Big Thing that will be our primary business focus, despite the fact that it&#8217;s not a business at all.</p>
<p>During the past 6 months, I&#8217;ve forgiven myself for a lot of things. I&#8217;ve found things in my head that I didn&#8217;t even know were there, and found things I thought I&#8217;d lost. If we settled down in a little village somewhere tomorrow, I would still be changed irrevocably.</p>
<p>When you travel, the greatest discovery is yourself.</p>
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